Teaching a Strong Work Ethic

One of the most important things you can do as a parent is to teach your child to work hard. It can begin when your child is very young – even as young as a year old. You can begin to teach them to pick up their toys. My daughter loved to help unload the dishwasher, particularly the silverware, from around the age of 18 months old. It’s important to begin while your child is young and make it a way of life.

They are part of the family; therefore, they can help out, no matter how young they are. Young children usually like to help out. They think it’s fun. Give them a toilet brush and tell them they can clean the toilet bowl and they love it. Of course, they will probably later decide that helping out isn’t fun. It’s important, at that point, to make sure they continue to do chores.

You can make a chore chart and post it somewhere in your home. That way, all family members know exactly what they are responsible for each day.

Raymond and Dorothy Moore, authors of The Successful Homeschool Family Handbookstate that chores should be integrated into a child’s school day. I definitely agree. If your child sits still to do school assignments for a certain time period, they could then take some time to do one of their chores. This helps break up the day. It gives them a chance to move and stretch their legs; it also gives them a mental break for a few minutes.

It is hard for young children to sit still for long periods of time. It is particularly difficult for young boys. They need get up and move. Then when they return to their school work, they will be better able to concentrate again.

Children can dust, vacuum, load and unload the dishwasher, clean bathrooms, pick up toys, etc. Here is a list of age appropriate chores:

2-5 Year Olds

Pick up toys and straighten room

Help unload dishwasher

Help wash or rinse dishes by hand; dry and put them away

Help make the bed

Dust

Help with cooking

Set the table

Sort laundry

Clear their place at the table

Run a lightweight stick vacuum or use a handheld vacuum under the table after meals

Help carry groceries in and put items away

 

6-8 Year Olds

Vacuum

Take out the trash

Help feed pets

Clean bathrooms

Windex windows

Water plants

Load the dishwasher

Yard and garden work

Fold and put away laundry

 

9-12 Year Olds

Wash vehicles

Clean kitchen counters

Do laundry with supervision

 

13-18 Year Olds

Mow and trim the lawn

Help with younger siblings

Rake leaves

Sweep

Iron clothes

Cook meals

Do laundry independently

Help with grocery shopping

 

We need to teach our kids to work hard because when they are grown, they will have to face reality. You don’t want them to be shocked by it – therefore, begin to prepare them now. Involve them in the day-to-day upkeep of your home. Make it a natural part of life. They will thank you for it one day.

 

“Every job is a self portrait of the person who does it. Autograph your work with excellence.” – Author Unknown

 

“Tell me and I forget. Teach me and I remember. Involve me and I learn.” – Benjamin Franklin

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